behaviorNurturing: Change the Behavior, Not the Child
Correct the behavior, not the child. Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on turning weaknesses into strengths.
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behaviorHelping a Child With ODD: Staying Calm When They Push Every Button
Defiance, arguing, meltdowns? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on supporting kids with ODD.
parentingWhich Parenting Style Works Best? Firm, Warm, and Built for Growth
Authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, or uninvolved? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ compares styles.
confidenceParenting the Shy Child: Your Child Isn't Shy. They're Smart.
Is your child shy or just careful? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ shares 5 ways to help.
confidenceParenting With Nurturing: How to Build Your Child's Self-Esteem
Real self-esteem is quiet and steady. Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on how to build it.
behaviorPatience: How to Be a More Patient Parent (Even on Hard Days)
Want to be a more patient parent? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ shares do-overs and more.
focusPlayful Connection: How to Fill Your Child's Emotional Cup
Why playing with your kids fills their emotional cup and cuts down on misbehavior. Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI in Belleville, Clifton & Hackensack NJ.
behaviorPrompting: Catch Your Child Being Good (and Watch What Happens)
Try catching your child being good. Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on positive reinforcement.
behaviorQuiet Parenting: How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids
Want to stop yelling at your kids? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on triggers and calm plans.
parentingHealthy Kids Start With Us: Role Modeling Habits That Last
Kids copy what they see. Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on modeling healthy habits at home.
behaviorReinforcement vs. Punishment: What Actually Changes Your Child's Behavior
What works better, rewards or punishment? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ breaks it down.
behaviorSay Yes to Childhood: What Happens When You Stop Saying No on Autopilot
Do you say no to your kids too much? Grandmaster Allen of ZENTAI Martial Arts in Belleville, Clifton, Hackensack & North Arlington NJ on the power of a yes.